Thanksgiving – What is
fascinated by one gentleman in particular; he did not have arms and limbs from
the base of the body, he was made up of just the torso and the head. He wrapped
his body with a car tube (those days car tires were inlaid with an air tight
tube to hold the air) and would slide inch by inch... his shoulder and rear part
would move in tandem, similar to a snake. He always made me think about life and
hope. I was about 14 years old then and was hesitant in speaking with him.
One day, I asked him what made him want to live. He did not have relatives,
could not do anything, could not have a family, could not have a place to live,
and could not wear clothes....
Why did he want to live?
He took a deep breath and looked at me and said, “Son, I look forward to every
morning to see the blue sky or see the rain and smell the earth, I smell and
taste the good food people give me, and I enjoy the water that I get now and
then... I am thankful that Bhagwan (God) has given me the eyes to see his
creation ..”. Appaiah turned around as asked “Isn’t there so much to thank the
lord?” I was rendered speechless. That is gratitude. Just that morning, I heard
my Dad’s favorite verse from Qur’aan- 55:16 “Then which of the favors of your
Lord will ye deny? (- English (Arabic: Baset - Hussari - Minshawi .)” . To this
day, if I am down, I to go to the scriptures, I have found solace in opening
Bhagvad Gita, Bible, Dale Carnegie’s book, the book of Mormon or Kitab Al Aqdas
(Bahai) or Sura Rahman, chapter 55 in Qur’aan, to uplift my spirits.
Thanksgiving is tomorrow.
Do me a favor, carry a small piece of paper and in your quiet moments, make a
list of all the people you want to thank. The least you can do is making a list,
which it self is peace giving and you will find a sense of relief with it. Even
if you don’t call every one on the list, you have already said your thanks by
thinking about the individual and reciting his or her name in your mind. When
you express your gratitude to the persons who have made a difference in your
life, it brings tons of relief to you. The tension of the action (good done to
you) to you is released with your re-action of thinking about them to writing
their name down and possibly calling them.
all the good things people have done to you, the good words they have said to
you. Even if you don’t like some of them now, separate the good they have done
and say thanks for it. Reign in on your ego and see the victory you feel within
On this note I would like to express my gratitude to Mr. Harbans Lal of
Sheshadri Puram, Bangalore, my first boss, who encouraged me to write. That was
in 1971 and since then I have written quite a lot. His voice still echoes “you
will become a writer” and it's been music to me even since. Please become that
voice to some one. There are many more people to thank, and I will do my part.
Nothing beats the joy of it my friends, I really care about you, even though my
email to you is not addressed to you in person, I know you. If you are happy,
that makes me happy.
Each one of us can become a voice to others to encourage whatever talent we may
have. We are a product of what others want us to be, most of the time. If you
want a better society, invoke the best in others. It is indeed rewarding.
This year, my biggest gratitude goes to Mr. Everett Blauvelt, the man whom I
call Dadsky. He has changed my whole life by inviting me to the United States
and giving me a start. I express a deep sense of gratitude to him and dedicate
this write up to him. Our friendship began 30 years ago.
I further express my gratitude to our men and women who are doing their duty to
protect our freedom.